Today started off brilliantly. Woke up to the sounds of BANGBANG at the door. I didnt bother getting up because the sun was still down. Whoever the fuck that is can come back later. And then the phone rang. It was my sister demanding to be let in. She'd come up from melbourne to visit for the new year etc. I was furious mind since it was like 5am and I'd only been asleep 3hours. One thing about me that everyone knows is that I totally and utterly detest my sister. I do not speak to her unless I'm forced to. I haven't spoken to her husband or his family in nearly 2 years and do not plan to change that. If I could add my sister to that I'd be on cloud nine. But no. This will never happen while I still live at home since my parents are too frustratingly annoying to tell her to stay at a hotel when she visits. They're also unhappy int he knowledge that when they both pass away that I will completely break contact with her and theres nothing they can do or say about it. At least that much I have control of.
I don't get the whole shock people show me when they hear me talk about her like that. If you know someone who you cannot stand, do you keep talking to them? No. Why exactly should family be any different? Because its blood? I'm expected to be miserable because of that bullshit rule? People told me when I was younger that when I get older I'll see things differently and mature etc blahblah. I'm now 35. When exactly do I get to be allowed by everyone to do as I please? Fuck that. Few things upset me. FEW. She's one of them. I cannot be in the same room with her for long before an argument starts up. Whenever I visited Melbourne I would stay at her house with her husband. This year I changed that. I preferred to go to a hotel for a week then stay with them and save money. I didn't even announce my intention of visiting there. Apparently her husband is pretty upset I refuse to speak to him anymore. Well too bad. I have a rule. You piss me off a fair amount of times, and I mean seriously fucking piss me off, and that's it. Go find someone else to chat with.
Theres no point in going into detail why I cant stand him anymore. Lets just say they were talking about divorcing for a while (they're fine now supposedly but whatever), and I was basically their middle man with endless phone calls at 5-6am from one of them screaming to me to tell the other to see sense blahblahblah. Well after 4months of this bullshit and me twitching every time the phone rang, it seriously started to affect me mentally, the very next phone call I got from them while they were having a massive argument at their house I hung up on them and called the police and had them go over stating spouse abuse. I dont care that it was a lie, I just wanted them to understand they can royally fuck off forever. I got the message across too. After that blocked them both from msn, steam, email, what have you. Got a new phone, refused to tell them my new number and told my parents on penalty of me moving out and leaving them to live alone for the rest of their life if they even hinted my new number to them. I couldn't stand my sister since I was a kid, but she brings nothing but drama. Just for reference, I LOVE helping people out as an unofficial counsellor and have always been told my advice is excellent since I'm great at listening, and I even got one guy who outright detested me to become a close friend. With those two things in mind now realise how much I have to truly hate someone to not want to speak to them again, and those being related to me.
Ok that was a little bit much. I felt like ranting. I'd put up a poll asking how many of you hated someone in your family, but I don't know how to make polls and I'm also a bit lazy at bothering to figure it out. So for now I'll just end things with something funny. When I saw this screenshot I almost outright choked. totally lol worthy.